”Mom is Gonna Be Upset That I Told This Story” Growing up LGBTQ+ in a heteronormative family can be a journey filled with both self-discovery and challenges. Reflecting on my own experiences, I’ve often found myself comparing my p…
I’m Gay. I’m Your Best Friend. But I’m Not Your GBF. Growing up, many queer men found themselves forming close friendships with girls. For some, like me, it just felt natural; connecting with girls seemed easier, almost instinctua…
Am I Crying or Laughing? We’re all too familiar with the “sassy gay best friend” trope—a character armed with campy humor and sharp wit, always ready with a quick comeback. While entertaining, these stereotypes have bled int…
Gaydar Malfunction: When Your Stereotypes Need a Tune-Up The concept of "gaydar" – the perceived ability to sense someone’s sexual orientation – is familiar to many and has become a fixture in LGBTQ+ culture. While widely recogniz…
The Sweet Side of Valentine’s Day? Discounted Candy on February 15 For many single people, Valentine’s Day looms as the most dreaded day of the year, and for good reason. In a society that’s largely heteronormative, LGBTQ+ people …
Because Putting a Condom on a Banana Doesn’t Cut It Growing up gay comes with its own set of unique experiences, setting us apart from our straight peers in ways that extend far beyond the obvious. For many of us, these differences impact our…
Nothing Says “True Love” Like Manipulation Some may already know the term love bombing, while for others, it might be new. And here’s a spoiler: love bombing isn’t as romantic as it sounds. In fact, you may have experienced …
It’s Giving Anxious Anxiety is a universal experience that affects everyone, regardless of sexual orientation. It's natural to feel anxious in certain situations—whether you're preparing for a big presentation at work or anticipating a …
It’s Better the Devil You Know Kylie’s Legacy Pop music has long held a special place in the hearts of gay men, serving as a powerful outlet for self-expression and emotional connection. The genre’s vibrant beats and catchy melodi…
It's a Beautiful Day in the Gayborhood If You Can Afford Rent It’s no secret that many gay men gravitate toward large cities in the U.S., with hubs like Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, and Washington, D.C., standing out as significant LGBTQ+ …
