Got Loneliness? Growing up gay in a predominantly straight world can have a profound impact on how gay men experience loneliness. The lack of representation and absence of gay role models often leave us feeling invisible, isolated, or as if we don&…
"Good or Bad, It's Just a Piece of My Past Now" Breakups can be emotionally overwhelming, often leaving people questioning their sense of self and the path forward. For many gay men, this experience can be compounded by societal pressures and inter…
Say Bye Bye Bye to Abandonment Issues When people hear the term abandonment issues, they often associate it with instability in childhood homes—scenarios where neglect or a lack of support created lingering wounds in adulthood. But for many g…
Nothing Says “True Love” Like Manipulation Some may already know the term love bombing, while for others, it might be new. And here’s a spoiler: love bombing isn’t as romantic as it sounds. In fact, you may have experienced …
Going Deeper Not Just in the Bedroom, But in Our Emotional Connections Gay dating presents unique challenges, particularly in a culture heavily reliant on dating apps. When using these apps, gay men often find themselves surrounded by shirtless pho…
Snapbacks, Tattoos, and Bad Attitudes Aren’t Always the Best Qualities In today’s digital age, where dating apps often present us with a sea of shirtless torsos and minimal information, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matter…
Be Nice, But Not Too Nice As we begin a new year, many of us embrace the idea of a fresh start. For some, this includes wading back into the dating pool, eager for love and connection. However, without addressing unresolved issues from the past, we…
Cue Needy by Ariana Grande In recent years, the concept of attachment styles has gained increasing attention, particularly in conversations about relationships and emotional health. For many, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, understanding a…
Not Sure If I'm Emotionally Available, But I'm Definitely Emotional We often hear about emotional unavailability, especially when relationships falter. It often seems like a buzzword to explain a partner's bad behavior. But what does it really mean…
After Years of Hiding in the Closet, I'm Now Expected to Reveal My Flaws Without Fear of Rejection? What is This? Some Kind of Sick Joke? Vulnerability is a concept that has been foreign to me for much of my life, yet it is undeniably essential for…
