A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

April 21, 2025

147. The Ultimate Guide to Gaycations (with Jason Heidemann)

In previous episodes, we've explored the key themes of gay villages and how destinations like Fire Island and Provincetown serve as sanctuaries for the queer community. Gay men, in particular, are often passionate about trave...
April 15, 2025

146. The Velvet Rage

Throughout many episodes, we’ve discussed how gay men continue to grapple with the shame they internalized as children growing up in a predominantly straight society that often invalidated or condemned their identities. This ...
April 7, 2025

145. Resisting Erasure: Preserving LGBTQ+ History (with Michael Venturiello)

In past episodes, we've explored pivotal moments in LGBTQ+ history that have often been overlooked or erased, highlighting why remembering our past is so vital. With the current administration actively trying to erase our his...
March 31, 2025

144. Bullies Beware: Confronting LGBTQ+ Bullying (with Mike Keller)

The current landscape of LGBTQ+ bullying remains pervasive, especially in schools and online, where discrimination and harassment can have devastating impacts on mental health and well-being. Not only does this isolate indivi...
March 24, 2025

143. Heal from Religious Trauma (with Ann Russo)

For gay men raised in religious environments, they often internalize harmful messages that condemn their sexual orientation, fostering a deep sense of unworthiness or fear. This religious trauma can manifest in lasting strugg...
March 17, 2025

142. Get Over Your Het Lag

Het lag is a humorous term for the exhaustion and disorientation queer people experience after prolonged exposure to exclusively straight environments. While the term is lighthearted, it speaks to the very real psychological ...

Recent Blog Posts

April 24, 2025

Judy Garland: The Enduring Legacy of Hollywood’s Timeless Star and Ga…

Our Friend, Dorothy Many people recognize Judy Garland as the timeless Dorothy Gale in The Wizard of Oz, skipping down the Yellow Brick Road with her ruby slippers and a heart full of dreams. While the film remains a colorful, iconic masterpiece, f…

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April 22, 2025

LGBTQ+ Youth Homelessness: The Crisis, Causes, and Critical Need for …

Protect LGBTQ+ Homeless Youth LGBTQ+ homelessness, particularly among youth, remains a pressing yet often overlooked issue. Across the United States, LGBTQ+ individuals, especially young people, are disproportionately affected by housing insecurity…

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April 17, 2025

Gayming: How LGBTQ+ Gaymers Are Redefining Community and Connection

Level Up Your Sense of Community For many LGBTQ+ individuals, particularly gay men, finding a sense of belonging can be challenging—especially when traditional social spaces like bars and clubs dominate the cultural landscape. While these ven…

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.

Reviews

One of my favorites!

"This is one of my favorite podcasts! Rob is fun to listen to and I get so much out of each episode. Thank you, Rob for being so fun and informative!"

Rob F W | Sept. 25, 2022

The Pod that started it all #nonjaded

"This Pod and the topics Rob covers was the drop of water that kicked off a journey for me that has had a profound ripple effect. Getting insight to gay micro traumas, people pleasing, perfectionism, …"

SamJo STL | June 22, 2023