A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

Feb. 18, 2025

138. Will & Grace

We’ve previously examined the history of gay representation in TV and film, tracing its evolution from early portrayals to groundbreaking moments like Ellen, which helped pave the way for greater visibility. Among these infl…
Feb. 11, 2025

137. Who’s Your Daddy? (with Sal Zambito)

The term "daddy" has been used as slang for over 300 years and was embraced by the gay community in the 1970s, particularly within the leather subculture, leading to the popular phrase "leather daddy." Today, in gay culture,…
Feb. 4, 2025

136. Closets & Cocktails: The Secret History of Gay Speakeasies (with Chris Holcombe)

In previous episodes, we discussed how gay men often found refuge in mafia-owned private bottle clubs, where they could drink and socialize without the fear of police raids or public hostility. These underground venues, whil…
Jan. 28, 2025

135. Don't Be A Mean Gay

While playful putdowns and throwing shade have long been a celebrated form of humor and bonding among gay men, they can sometimes perpetuate cliques, exclusion, and toxic behaviors within the community. Not only does this be…
Jan. 21, 2025

134. A Message of Hope for the LGBTQ+ Community

Following the harm inflicted on the LGBTQ+ community under the Trump administration from 2017-2021, including attacks on transgender rights and the rollback of anti-discrimination protections, many fear what the new era of T…
Dec. 17, 2024

133. Best of Guests (2024): Part 2

As the end of the year approaches, it’s important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger foun…

Recent Blog Posts

Feb. 20, 2025

Self-Deprecating Humor’s Effect on LGBTQ+ Mental Health and Self-Este…

Am I Crying or Laughing? We’re all too familiar with the “sassy gay best friend” trope—a character armed with campy humor and sharp wit, always ready with a quick comeback. While entertaining, these stereotypes have bled int…

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Feb. 18, 2025

Is Gaydar Real? Examining Its Origins, Accuracy, and Social Implicati…

Gaydar Malfunction: When Your Stereotypes Need a Tune-Up The concept of "gaydar" – the perceived ability to sense someone’s sexual orientation – is familiar to many and has become a fixture in LGBTQ+ culture. While widely recogniz…

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Feb. 13, 2025

Valentine's Day for Gay Men: Celebrating Self-Love, Friendship, and C…

The Sweet Side of Valentine’s Day? Discounted Candy on February 15 For many single people, Valentine’s Day looms as the most dreaded day of the year, and for good reason. In a society that’s largely heteronormative, LGBTQ+ people …

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.