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A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

Jan. 26, 2026

171. Manifest Your Best Year Yet (with Ryan Lu)

In previous episodes, we explored how to stay focused on attracting the right kinds of guys into our lives and the power of manifestation. As we move into the new year, we have the opportunity to realign our intentions and op...
Jan. 19, 2026

170. Why Am I Attracted to Bros?

In previous episodes, we’ve explored how different expressions of masculinity, from archetypes like Castro Clones and metrosexuality to gym culture, intersect across the gay world. Within subcultures such as bros, leather, an...
Jan. 12, 2026

169. Trump Watch 2025

Previously, we reviewed the Trump administration’s record on LGBTQ+ rights from 2017 to 2021. As the horrors persist under the new Trump administration, it’s vital to recognize how its actions continue to undermine civil righ...
Dec. 15, 2025

168. Real Housewives of Pennsylvania (with Eric Praniewicz)

For gay men, pop culture and reality TV often provide campy, glamorous spaces that echo queer experiences of self-expression and resilience. The Real Housewives franchise, in particular, captivates with its mix of drama, indi...
Dec. 1, 2025

167. Best of Guests 2025: Politico Edition

As we close out 2025, it’s hard to ignore this year’s political turmoil, with uncertainty about our future looming over us. With the holidays upon us, it’s natural to feel bittersweet as we look back and dream of brighter day...
Nov. 17, 2025

166. Confront Gay Ageism and Redefine Midlife (with Hunter Flournoy)

In previous episodes, we’ve discussed how stereotypical gay culture has idolized youth, beauty, and sex. This fixation has led some gay men to equate midlife with “aging out” of the community, often resulting in internalized ...

Recent Blog Posts

Jan. 29, 2026

Queer Masculinity: Navigating Gay Men's Complex Relationship with Ide…

Beyond the Brawn Masculinity has long been a rigid societal construct, often excluding those who don't conform to traditional ideals. For gay men, navigating this pressure can be especially challenging, as they live within and outside of these gend…

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Jan. 27, 2026

Suffering from Het Lag? How Minority Stress Exhausts the LGBTQ+ Commu…

Iced Coffee May Be a Great Cure for Het Lag Many gay men grow up surrounded by straight peers, forming friendships and social circles in predominantly heterosexual spaces before fully embracing their queer identity. As a result, they may initially …

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Jan. 22, 2026

Preserving LGBTQ+ History: Why Queer Stories Must Be Remembered and C…

“Incredibly Brave, Badass People Who Changed Their Community” LGBTQ+ history has been long overlooked in mainstream education, leaving many unaware of the contributions and struggles of the community. Even today, the erasure of queer hi…

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.

Reviews

One of my favorites!

"This is one of my favorite podcasts! Rob is fun to listen to and I get so much out of each episode. Thank you, Rob for being so fun and informative!"

Rob F W | Sept. 25, 2022

The Pod that started it all #nonjaded

"This Pod and the topics Rob covers was the drop of water that kicked off a journey for me that has had a profound ripple effect. Getting insight to gay micro traumas, people pleasing, perfectionism, …"

SamJo STL | June 22, 2023