A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

June 9, 2025

154. Pride and Protest: Defending LGBTQ+ Rights in a Shifting America (with Mari Nemec)

The current state of LGBTQ+ rights and politics reflects both significant progress and mounting challenges, with ongoing debates over transgender rights, workplace protections, and marriage equality. Activism, rooted in the c...
June 2, 2025

153. Pride, Pleasure, and the Path to Healing (with Court Vox)

While Pride is often seen as a time for parades and rainbow flags, it can also be a reminder of the trauma, shame, and disconnection that many LGBTQ+ people, especially gay men, carry within themselves. Yet Pride can also be ...
May 26, 2025

152. Bratz to the Bone (with Chris Angelo)

In previous episodes, we discussed how pop culture has long served as a powerful space for gay men to find representation, expression, and community, offering both a reflection of their struggles and a source of empowerment. ...
May 19, 2025

151. Twink Death: RIP Skinny Jeans

In recent years, "twink death"—the idea that a young, slim gay man loses social value as he ages out of the "twink" category—has gained traction as a viral online concept. Though often treated as a humorous social media trend...
May 12, 2025

150. Lights, Camera, Action: The Importance of Trans Voices in Media (with AJ Mattioli)

In previous episodes, we explored how LGBTQ+ media representation has evolved significantly since the early days of cinema, shifting from largely negative stereotypes and hidden identities to more nuanced and diverse portraya...
May 5, 2025

149. Boats, Bears, and Building Community (with Chumley Singer)

LGBTQ+ individuals often navigate the diverse landscape of the queer community to forge connections that resonate with their identities, seeking spaces where they feel seen, understood, and supported. The bear community, with its celebration of body positivity and inclusivity, provides a unique sub…

Recent Blog Posts

June 12, 2025

The Pulse Nightclub Shooting: A Tragic Reminder of Hate, Violence, an…

Thoughts and Prayers Are Not Enough While there’s truth in the idea that life has improved for many gay people, improvement doesn’t equate to equality or safety. Tragic events like Matthew Shepard’s murder in the 1990s and the Pul…

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June 10, 2025

Why Brunch is the Ultimate Queer Tradition: Exploring Its Cultural Si…

How Many Carbs Can a Gay Have at Brunch? The Limit Does Not Exist. Honestly, who doesn’t love brunch? It’s the perfect blend of indulgence and leisure, where sweet meets savory, and cocktails are socially acceptable before noon. Yet, fo…

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June 5, 2025

Long Live Queer Nightlife: The Evolution of Inclusive Queer Spaces an…

Queer Spaces in an Evolving World Queer spaces, including gay bars, LGBTQ+ centers, and other community hubs, have long been sanctuaries where individuals can express their identities, form connections, and build solidarity. However, as society und…

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.

Reviews

One of my favorites!

"This is one of my favorite podcasts! Rob is fun to listen to and I get so much out of each episode. Thank you, Rob for being so fun and informative!"

Rob F W | Sept. 25, 2022

The Pod that started it all #nonjaded

"This Pod and the topics Rob covers was the drop of water that kicked off a journey for me that has had a profound ripple effect. Getting insight to gay micro traumas, people pleasing, perfectionism, …"

SamJo STL | June 22, 2023