A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

Recent Episodes

Nov. 3, 2025

165. Reclaiming Queer History: The Impact of LGBTQ+ Historical Fiction (with Jeza Belle)

LGBTQ+ history has long been overlooked, ignored, or actively erased, leaving us with only fragments of a past that deserves to be preserved and celebrated. That absence makes historical fiction a meaningful platform for recl...
Oct. 20, 2025

164. Exploring Queer Identity Through Astrology (with Danny Santos)

Previously, we discussed how some queer men find solace and empowerment in spiritual practices like astrology, which offers a means of self-discovery and affirmation. Rooted in introspection and symbolism, queer astrology can...
Oct. 6, 2025

163. Queer Belonging in the Digital Age (with Nick Paul)

Social media has created vibrant online communities where LGBTQ+ people can connect, share experiences, and affirm their identities. Platforms like TikTok offer support, visibility, and a sense of belonging that many may not ...
Sept. 22, 2025

162. Queer Beauty: Unfiltered (with Vincent Branchesi & Karim Fadel)

Queer beauty celebrates self-expression, authenticity, and fluidity, challenging traditional beauty standards and embracing identities across the spectrum. By centering queer voices, beauty becomes a powerful tool for empower...
Sept. 8, 2025

161. Queer Bodies: Navigating Illness, Identity, and Intimacy (with Mickie Kennedy)

Societal pressure on men to appear tough and self-reliant can lead to the avoidance of medical care since vulnerability is wrongly equated with weakness. For gay men, this is further complicated by the fear of discrimination ...
Aug. 25, 2025

160. Why Queer Bookstores Matter: Preserving LGBTQ+ Culture and Community (with Greg Newton & Donnie Jochum)

Queer bookstores have long been more than just places to buy books, serving as cultural hubs, safe havens, and essential spaces for connection, representation, and affirmation within the LGBTQ+ community. As we navigate an in...

Recent Blog Posts

Nov. 11, 2025

Gay Speakeasies of the 1920s: The Hidden History of Queer Resistance,…

Hidden in Plain Sight In the vibrant yet turbulent 1920s, New York City’s underground gay nightlife began to take shape in secretive, illicit spaces. These venues, known as gay speakeasies, became critical sanctuaries for LGBTQ+ individuals d…

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Nov. 6, 2025

Embrace Your LGBTQ+ Identity: How to Navigate Cultural Challenges, Se…

The Power of Identity For LGBTQ+ individuals, the journey toward self-acceptance and personal growth is deeply influenced by the interplay of identity, societal pressures, and cultural expectations. Embracing one’s authentic self often requir…

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Nov. 4, 2025

The Intersection of Mustaches and Queer Culture: A History of Rebelli…

I Mustache You a Question: Are Staches Gay? November is also known as Movember, the month when mustaches start making a noticeable appearance everywhere. In recent years, it seems like the mustache has made a stylish comeback, becoming a prominent …

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About the Host

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Rob Loveless

Rob Loveless is the host of A Jaded Gay podcast, focusing on LGBTQ+ empowerment through pop culture, politics, and dating hardships. Blending humor, vulnerability, and open discussions, the podcast delves into a wide range of topics and invites listeners into a supportive and inclusive space where they can find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging.

Reviews

One of my favorites!

"This is one of my favorite podcasts! Rob is fun to listen to and I get so much out of each episode. Thank you, Rob for being so fun and informative!"

Rob F W | Sept. 25, 2022

The Pod that started it all #nonjaded

"This Pod and the topics Rob covers was the drop of water that kicked off a journey for me that has had a profound ripple effect. Getting insight to gay micro traumas, people pleasing, perfectionism, …"

SamJo STL | June 22, 2023